I didn’t know when it started.
Maybe the day I stared at my syllabus for hours without reading a line.
Maybe when I laughed with friends, but felt nothing inside.
Or maybe… it was always there — hidden behind marksheets, comparisons, and the fear of not being enough.
We call it stress. We call it overthinking. But truth is —
It’s anxiety. And it’s eating us from the inside.
"You're Just Lazy..."
How many of us have heard this?
You try to focus, but your mind is already somewhere else.
You want to study, but your chest feels heavy.
You open your books, but nothing makes sense.
And when someone casually says, “You’re always on your phone,”
You want to scream — “No, I’m fighting something you can't see.”
You’re Not Alone
Let me say it clearly —
Every second student around you is tired. Mentally. Emotionally.
Some hide it with fake smiles.
Some disappear from groups.
Some joke about it to escape.
And some… write blogs like this, just to feel a little less alone.
What’s Really Going On?
We are trapped in a cycle:
Constant pressure to succeed
Fear of failure
Endless comparison
No space to pause or breathe
A routine that feels like survival
Add social media filters, unrealistic expectations, and the myth that “hustle is peace” — and it's a perfect recipe for burnout.
What Helped Me (And Might Help You)
These are not tips. Just things that saved me from sinking:
I started journaling raw thoughts — not for Instagram, just for myself.
I stopped pretending to be okay. I told at least one person, “I’m not fine right now.”
I broke my day into tiny wins. Even 20 minutes of true focus was a victory.
I gave myself permission to pause. Not quit. Just pause.
A Gentle Reminder
You don’t have to be perfect.
You just have to be aware.
Take things slow. Breathe deeper.
Even now, reading this blog, you’re choosing to understand yourself — and that’s a win.
You are not weak. You are just human.
Have you ever felt this too? Do you have your own survival tricks?
Share them in the comments or send me a message — your words might help someone else feel seen.
You know, the process I follow that I express infront you, but, now I am also in the same phase. Trying to give my best..but failed sometime... So, let's change ourselves together..
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